What’s the difference between me and the rest?
There is nothing fake about me, no pretending. I use Tantric techniques to cultivate an authentic, sensual and down-right steamy connection with each one of my seekers. I’m known for my ability to find our common thread and lead us in building spine-tingling chemistry and incredible sensual and energetic “firsts.” I’m not a fitness model, but I’m 100% in love with my curves and ecstatically comfortable in my skin. I’m compassionate, nurturing, playful and a very clear communicator.
How do you teach “Tantra”?
Well, I can’t give away all of my secrets, but I’m a highly trained and thoughtful teacher. I’ve developed a way to keep things very sensual, while gently guiding you through the practices you need to become an amazing conscious lover with unlimited ecstatic potential in all aspects of your life.
Tantra is a vast system, and I don’t pretend to be able to teach it to you all in an hour or two, but I pride myself on being able to tune in to exactly what you need, whether you were aware of it or not. In comparison to other Tantra teachers, I find that I’m more on the practical, down-to-earth side. I focus on connection and technique, rather than magical thinking or spiritual dogma. I can’t always explain the miracles that happen in session, and I’m okay with that. I’m in awe of the mystery and I am amazed by the energy in us all.
And yes, there are candles, incense, and amazing music! (And, no, that is not what makes a session Tantric! Silly people.)
What can I expect to happen in a session? Magic. Connection. Liberating bliss. I work very intuitively, each session is unique piece of art. Other than what is described in my offerings, I don’t guarantee any specific acts or levels of intimacy or engage in any illegal activities. I expect trust in my expertise and our unique connection to lead the way. Sometimes the deepest healing will take place in the form of our conversation.
Who should come see me?
Men, women and couples who are interested in personal growth, and are curious about how to use their minds and bodies to create profound shifts in their lives, both inside and outside of the bedroom. I work with students of all levels, but genuine curiosity is my one prerequisite. I also appreciate your willingness to try new things, even if they are a bit scary or embarrassing. Tantra really begins with the breath, so stop now, prepare to take a big inhale through your nose and let out a huge sigh with your exhale. Close your eyes, and try it now. Didn’t that feel nice? Imagine if we started to link that with your sexual energy…
Who should NOT come to see me?
If you are seeking someone to fulfill your fantasies or take demands, we are not a good match. While there is nothing wrong with asking for the thing that “gets you off,” I’m not interested in continuing whatever current sexual habit you are in. If you’ve come to me, it’s because you are interested in exploring the full spectrum of sensuality. The first step to this is being able to drop your “go-to” pattern, image, or fantasy for a few hours and reach into the unknown for something even more amazing. If you need someone to say what you want to hear and do what you want to do, we aren’t a good fit, there are plenty of providers who love to do that and I’d be happy to recommend one. I appreciate those who trust my expertise in leading them in an unforgettable experience.
How do I book a session?
The best way to book a session is to call me or email me to set up a time to speak. I prefer not to text, unless we have already met. I do not book sessions without a phone conversation. I appreciate seekers who take the time to read my website, respectfully introduce themselves, and schedule in advance. To expedite scheduling, you can send me an email with your full name, phone number and either 1-2 provider references or a link to a website that verifies your identity. (All of your information is 100% confidential and used only to enhance my comfort level in inviting you into my home.) I rarely do out-calls, with the exception being 5 star hotels or upscale homes for an additional fee.
How do I prepare?
At a minimum, please arrive on time (NOT early) to your session, recently showered with fresh breath or ask to rinse off and use mouthwash when you arrive. Please do not wear cologne or heavily scented products. If you are running late, please be sure to text and do not expect that your session can be extended. Bring an open heart and mind and be ready to follow my lead. Have your donation ready in an envelop and place it on my altar before we begin.
The longer answer is: treat this session like the true gift it is. Allow enough time before and after in your schedule not to rush, so you can truly savor the experience. Drink a lot of water and don’t eat a heavy meal or consume any alcohol or drugs before we meet. Think about your intention: What do you want to learn or experience in the session? What emotions or sensations would you like to embody by the end of our time together?
What about gratuities?
Gratuities are truly appreciated, but not required. If you’d like to pay tribute in another way, I enjoy flowers, candles, organic berries, dark chocolate, and champagne. Amazon.com and Whole Foods gift certificates are another great way to support my favourite obsessions: green juice and Tantra books!
What if I need to cancel?
I understand circumstances do arise, which require rescheduling. Please realize that once I book your appointment, I’m turning down other seekers who want that time frame. If you have to cancel with less than 24 hrs notice, it is customary to provide me with a $100 cancellation fee via Credit card or upon our next meeting. If you give me more than 24hrs notice OR we are able to reschedule your session easily within the next 24 hrs, no fee is necessary.
Do you take credit cards?
I accept credit cards/interact payments.
Do you have any reviews? Can I leave you a review?
I love to receive feedback on my sessions privately. I do not feel comfortable with public review boards. I am a very discrete and like to honor the magic that happens in each unique session. I’d never want to see a play-by-play printed publicly, and kindly request that your refrain from doing so. On occasion, clients and friends have offered to write testimonials and I proudly post them here. If you are skeptical, I can put you in touch personally with anyone who has posted a review here.